Despite the passionate writing style I find I don't really care anymore, nor am I frustrated
I'm still curious though. The reality of what Irish society and culture actually is, the stark ugly casually-vicious brutality of the system, the pikey thievery at every level, the ramant abuse, psychological, physical and sexual....it's a grim grim place. And once you've looked behind the curtain of false "ah shure aren't we a gas bunch of lads" forced bonhomie and seen Ireland for what it is you'd never want to go back.
I've never seen a decent explanation that seems to explain it all though. You and the Cap'n both make valid, logical points but they both still seem....incomplete. Not the full picture. I just always feel like I'm missing something, something obvious, that explains why Ireland is the way it is. I've had similar conversations recently with old friends who got out years ago, they all eventually reached the conclusion there was no point in trying to figure it out and just got on with their new lives with a roll of the eyes and a shrug. But a few of them certainly, at least in the early years, did still try to puzzle through the mystery, without success.
Maybe there is no straightforward answer. Maybe the place is just a dysfunctional mess on every level. But then that begs the question....who are we, any of us? Of the learned cultural identity, mores and so on, of the opinions and beliefs we consider our own, how many actually have any validity, and which ones are just adapted coping mechanisms to deal with the endless trauma of a sick society? And if a coping mechanism, should it be retained after you leave or will it just hold you back in a less-messed-up society?
Yeah. I think too much LOL.





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