Re: If You Wear a Cross, You Bear a Cross

Originally Posted by
5intheface
The former Relate worker Gary McFarlane's case is an interesting one. He felt he couldn't give sex advice to same sex couples and was sacked on grounds of gross misconduct. He felt that another Counsellor could have taken care of these cases.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/McFarla...elate_Avon_Ltd
Didn't seem that unreasonable to me until someone said it was akin to asking Rosa Parks to give up her seat for a white passenger or else wait a few minutes for an alternative bus which imposed no racial seating regulations.
I have no problem with people wearing crucifixes, dog collars, hijabs, or whatever. In Canada Sikhs are allowed to wear their turbans in the police force instead of the uniform hat and I don't see why not.
I don't think it reasonable for people to apply for jobs which require them to do one thing and then claim religious reasons or whatever for not being able to do it. It seems to me that the Relate guy walked himself into that one with eyes wide open and I would not have much sympathy:
Although the applicant had found himself capable of assisting same-sex couples in counselling where discussion of sexual issues was not involved, in September 2006 he applied to undertake a diploma course in psycho-sexual therapy (PST) (a new name for sex therapy[7]).
If he had ben doing the job one way for years and they introduced new requirements (same sex sexual counselling) which he felt he was unable to do then I would feel it appropriate that some provision be made. But he appears to have taken on a position knowing that he would be required to provide this counselling.
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