I planted flowers to brighten the mound and I think it was appreciated, for eg. there were no buttercups on the mound before I planted the geraniums and other plants. Its a big garden and it seems the butter cups spread. Or one could look at it in a more fanciful, romantic way.
And a misunderstanding. Looking back far from giving I've been on the receiving end... Troublesome, ungrateful pups.
I like your suggestion re mistletoe I must, absolutely must get some. I think it is a plant of power I like it and hopefully the old ones would appreciate it.
Can I just mention that the Craft is not a part of any other religion.